I really feel like life will dictate itself. You should allow it to unfold as naturally as possible. Just go with the flow. When you`re really desperate, you say a few prayers and hope for the best. That`s the way I`ve always lived my life.
I find that the very things that I get criticized for, which is usually being different and just doing my own thing and just being original, is the very thing that`s making me successful.