I don`t think any actor feels comfortable watching themselves in movies. You must be very narcissistic. The problem with your own opinion of yourself is that contrary to the normal spectators, when you watch a film you are in, you only watch yourself.
I don`t know what sex appeal is. I don`t think you can have sex appeal knowingly. The people who seduce me personally are the people who seem not to know they`re seductive, and not to know they have sex appeal.
I didn`t want to be a slave to any passion anymore. I gave up card playing altogether, even bridge and gambling - more or less. It took me a few years to get out of it.