If there`s no inner peace, people can`t give it to you. The husband can`t give it to you. Your children can`t give it to you. You have to give it to you.
I`m not obsessed by how I look or with being reed thin, but I do think that as a woman in my 50s, I have 40 years ahead. Looking after yourself goes hand in hand with looking good.
I was looking very much for a career. My second marriage to Stan Herman had ended, and I wanted very much to be independent, not take alimony from him, be on my own, do the right thing.