More and more couples are having this negotiation or discussion, but I`m still amazed at the number who aren`t and where the cultural norm sort of kicks in and they just assume that mom`s got to be the one who stays home, not dad.
It`s just that, when the orchestra look at me, I want them to see a completely involved person who reflects what we rehearsed, and whose function is to make it possible for them to do it.