My whole belief system is that our paths are drawn for us. I believe in reincarnation. I believe we`re here to learn and grow. We choose how we come into this life based on what it is we have to learn. Some people have harder lessons than others.
Layers are not difficult for me. You have the luxury of takes, so if you feel like, say, you did not take in the fact that your aunt is across the way in one take, you do it again and try to add that piece.